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15 Things Underestimated In Becoming A Dad

15 Things Underestimated In Becoming A Dad

This post was initially drafted back in 2016 following the birth of my first daughter. There is no strong reason for its delay, but with the birth of our second daughter last week, it felt right to rekindle the post.

Becoming a dad is something I am extremely proud to have experienced, and whilst I feel I have learnt and experienced so much since the arrival of my first daughter, there is still so much more to experience and learn. Through the Playing Dad series, I am hoping to share those moments with the aim to help someone else navigate their way into and through parenthood. Welcoming baby number two into the world has presented a new perspective on some aspects of my original draft. It was tailored very much towards first time dads, focusing on that leap of faith into an unknown you can never truly prepare for. Once you have had one child, a lot of the realities are no longer unknown and you take on a different level of confidence.

Paradise Wildlife Park [Review]

Paradise Wildlife Park [Review]

Paradise Wildlife Park is an animal park located in Broxbourne, Hertfordshire. It is right on our doorstep, so it is no surprise that I have visited this attraction multiple times both as a child and a parent. The zoo has undergone a major transformation in my lifetime transforming from the worst zoo in Britain to one of much acclaim. As with many attractions, Paradise Wildlife Park was put under significant strain when forced to close its gates in response to COVID-19. They eventually opened again in late June. Eager to show our support for a local attraction much loved by my family, we immediately booked our tickets to visit once again.

The Best Thing You Can Spend On Your Children Is Time

The Best Thing You Can Spend On Your Children Is Time

This is a first for my blog. The Playing Dad series meets The Edison Project. This post is once again a little later than it should be, but the concept only came to me when writing my previous post on creating tie-dye attire with my daughter.

Be The Tie-Dye Sheep Of The Family

Be The Tie-Dye Sheep Of The Family

Create a tie-dye piece of attire. Only god knows where the desire to add this project to the list came from. It was added long before I had children, so I cannot even use that excuse. However, it was during a brainstorm for ideas to keep my daughter entertained during lockdown when everything aligned.

Project 2020

Glasses and pen atop sheet music (Credit: Dayne Topkin via Unsplash)

1

Make a Song

Footprints (Credit: Christopher Sardegna via Unsplash)

2

Past Life Regression

Love your neighbour (Credit: Skeeze via Pixabay)

3

Visit One of the Home Nations

Saxophone (Credit: Jens Thekkeveettil via Unsplash)

4

Learn to Play a Musical Instrument

Art seller (Credit: Beata Ratuszniak via Unsplash)

5

Create and Sell A Piece of Art

Attire (Credit: Norwood Themes via Unsplash)

6

Design and Sell an Item of Clothing

Weights (Credit: pixabay.com)

7

Join a Gym and Bulk Up

Machu Pichu (Credit: Amanda Kerr via Unsplash)

8

Visit One of the Seven Wonders of the World

Strangers (Credit: Aleksandra Mazur via Unsplash)

9

Visit a Random City Abroad and Take a Stranger for a Meal

Summit (Credit: Joshua Earle via Unsplash)

10

Climb Ben Nevis, Mount Snowden or Scafell Pike

Running (Credit: Joshua Sortino via Unsplash)

11

Take Part in a Running Event

Surfing (Credit: Anton Repponen via Unsplash)

12

Surf a Wave

Sharks (Credit: Jakob Owen via Unsplash)

13

Go Scuba Diving with Sharks

Maracana Stadium (Credit: Pexel via Pixabay)

14

Watch a Football Match in the Nou Camp, Bernabeu, San Siro and the Maracana

Rio Street Art (Credit: Mavenic via Pixabay)

15

Experience Rio Carnival in Brazil

Tango (Credit: Werner22Brigitte via Pixabay)

16

Learn to Dance

Northern Lights (Credit: Paul Morris via Unsplash)

17

Experience the Northern Lights

Acrobat Planes (Credit: Hans Dorries via Unsplash)

18

Fly a Plane

Cherry Blossom (Credit: Yukihide via Pixabay)

19

See the Cherry Blossom in Japan

Sumo (Credit: Eckhard Pecher)

20

Watch a Sumo Wrestling Fight in Japan

Train Line (Credit: Austin Smart via Unsplash)

21

Ride the Trans-Siberian Railway

Luggage (Credit: Harsh Jadav via Unsplash)

22

Couch Surf

Sailing (Credit: Jonathan Smith via Unsplash)

23

Learn to Sail

I Fell In Love Here (Credit: Jason Briscoe via Unsplash)

24

Get Married

Stargazing (Credit: Joshua Earle via Unsplash)

25

Learn to Stargaze

Mowing (Credit: Daniel Watson via Unsplash)

26

Donate Hair

Safari (Credit: Hidde Rensink via Unsplash)

27

Go on a Safari

Fishing (Credit: Brian Erickson via Unsplash)

28

Go Fishing and Catch a Fish

Starry Sky (Credit: Robson Hatsukami Morgan via Unsplash)

29

Sleep Outside Beneath the Stars

Paella (Credit: Cel Lisboa via Unsplash)

30

Eat in San Sebastian

Burning Man (Credit: Ellie Pritts via Unsplash)

31

Go to Burning Man

World Cup (Credit: Mariya Butd)

32

Go to a Football World Cup

Hollywood (Credit: Michael Haslim via Unsplash)

33

Have a Photo with a Hollywood Star

Dolphins in the wild (Credit: Talia Cohen via Unsplash)

34

Swim with Dolphins

Cameraman (Credit: NeONBRAND via Unsplash)

35

Take Part in a TV Show

Pretend This Never Happened (Credit: Patrick Tomasso via Unsplash)

36

Go Speed Dating

Floating Huts (Credit: Ishan @seefromthesky via Unsplash)

37

Stay in a Bungalow in Bora Bora

Keep exploring (Credit: Justin Luebke via Unsplash)

38

Visit Every Continent

Beers (Credit: Quentin Dr via Unsplash)

39

Experience Oktoberfest

Bull fighting (Credit: Leeroy via lifeofpixel.com)

40

Experience a Bull Fight 

Rock Climbing (Credit: Lionello DelPiccolo via Unsplash)

41

Go Rock Climbing

Vegan Diet (Credit: Brooke Lark via Unsplash)

42

Attempt a Vegan Diet for Two Weeks

Sydney Opera House (Credit: TPSDave via Pixabay)

43

Go to an Opera

Poker (Credit: Michal Parzuchowski via Unsplash)

44

Play in a Poker Tournament

Grape vines (Credit: Roberta Sorge via Unsplash)

45

Visit a Vineyard in France

Damn fine coffee (Credit: Jon Tyson via Unsplash)

46

Drink a Cup of Coffee in Milan

Tape Measure (Credit: Jennifer Burke via Unsplash)

47

Buy a Tailored Suit

Colonic Irrigation (Credit: Gabor Manori via Unsplash)

48

Experience Colonic Irrigation

Barbers Chair (Credit: Skittlephoto via Pixabay)

49

Shave my Hair Off

Steeler Nation (Credit: SteelCityHobbies)

50

See the Pittsburgh Steeler Live

Shuttle launch (Credit: SpaceX via Unsplash)

51

Watch a Space Shuttle/Rocket Launch

Bottles (Credit: Bhavyesh Acharya via Unsplash)

52

Send a Message in a Bottle

Yes (Credit: Aktim via Pixabay)

53

Spend a Day Saying Yes

Cocktail (Credit: Adam Jaime via Unsplash)

54

Learn to Make a Signature Cocktail

The Shard (Credit: Fred Mouniguet via Unsplash)

55

Abseil Down a Tall Building

Logs (Credit: Radek Grzybowski via Unsplash)

56

Cut Down a Tree with an Axe

Hammock (Credit: Chris Thompson via Unsplash)

57

Sleep in a Tree

Whales (Credit: Georg Wolf via Unsplash)

58

See Whales in the Wild

Castle (Credit: Dominik QN via Unsplash)

59

Sleep in a Castle

Igloo (Credit: Genocre via Pixabay)

60

Build an Igloo

Buddhist (Credit: Joshua Medway via Unsplash)

61

Visit a Buddhist Monastery

Cambodia (Credit: AO IRIS via Unsplash)

62

Visit Five Temples in Cambodia

Beach fire (Credit: Kimson Doan via Unsplash)

63

Start a Fire on a Beach

Horse riding (Credit: Tobias Keller via Unsplash)

64

Go Horse Riding

Auswitz (Credit: DzidekLasek via Pixabay)

65

Visit Auswitz

Ice Hotel (Credit: Dragon via Pixabay)

66

Stay in a Ice Hotel

New Orleans(Credit: Chris Litherland via Pixabay)

67

Celebrate Mardi Gras in New Orleans

Tour De France (Credit: Robert Calin via Unsplash)

68

See the Tour De France

Magic (Credit: Farhan Siddicq via Unsplash)

69

Learn a Magic Trick

Return home (Credit: Mantas Hesthaven via Unsplash)

70

Fly to a Random Location in Europe and Work my Way Home

Paris (Credit: Hannes Wolf via Unsplash)

71

Visit at Least One European Capital City

Flashmob Pillow Fight (Credit: Tim Stief via Unsplash)

72

Take Part in a Flash Mob

Juggling (Credit: Jorge Rohan via Pixabay)

73

Learn to Juggle Four Balls

Tie-dye (Credit: Ha'anala 76 via Pixabay)

74

Create a Tie-Dye Piece of Attire

Neuschwanstein Castle (Credit: Rachel Davis via Unsplash)

75

Visit Fussen

Lake District (Credit: Margo Bradowiaz via Unsplash)

76

Visit the Lake District

Frog Legs (Credit: Midori via Pixabay)

77

Eat Frog Legs

Paddle Boarding (Credit: Kimon Maritz via Unsplash)

78

Go Paddle Boarding

Yorkshire (Credit: Michael D Beckwith via Unsplash)

79

Visit at Least One National Park

Lake District (Credit: Margo Bradowiaz via Unsplash)

80

Walk all the Roads on a Monopoly Board

Social media (Credit: William Iven via Unsplash)

81

Be Completely Honest on Social Media for a Whole Day

Paddle Boarding (Credit: Kimon Maritz via Unsplash)

82

Visit the National Army Museum

Windsor Castle (Credit: Toa Heftiba via Unsplash)

83

Visit a New Castle in the UK

Friends (Credit: Sidharth Bhartia via Unsplash)

84

Reach Out to an Old Friend

Lighthouse (Credit: Allen Cai via Unsplash)

85

Sleep in a Lighthouse

Hyde Park Corner (Credit: capl@washjeff.edu)

86

Watch Speeches at Hyde Park Corner

Windsor Castle (Credit: Toa Heftiba via Unsplash)

87

Visit Shri Swaminarayan Mandir

Friends (Credit: Sidharth Bhartia via Unsplash)

88

Go on the London Loo Tour

St Albans Cathedral (Credit: Prezmyslow Sakrajda via. Pixabay)

89

Go on the St Albans Cathedral Tower Tour

Hyde Park Corner (Credit: capl@washjeff.edu)

90

Experience a Gruffalo TrAIL

A Pint (Credit: Pawel Kadysz via Unsplash)

91

Visit all the Local Pubs in Welwyn Garden City

Aquarium (Credit: Nicholas Moon)

92

Grow my Hair Long

St Albans Cathedral (Credit: Prezmyslow Sakrajda via. Pixabay)

93

Write a Children's Book

Uncomplicate yourself (Credit: maxpixel.freegreatpicture.com/)

94

No Internet Connection for a Whole Weekend

St Pauls (Credit: Tudor Penait via Unsplash)

95

Visit St Paul's Cathedral

Explore (Credit: Andrew Neel via Unsplash)

96

Visit the Capital of Each County 

Walking (Credit: Volkan Omez via Unsplash)

97

Walk Every Street in Welwyn Garden City

Pigeons (Credit: Luis Llerena via Unsplash)

98

Walk Home From Work

House and garden (Credit: Scott Webb via Unsplash)

99

Perform Stand-up Comedy

Explore (Credit: Andrew Neel via Unsplash)

100

Get Someone Else to Start a List

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